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Contemporary Parenting Questions


Last updated on 09/15/08

What can I do to help my child cope with divorce?

If you are separated or divorced, you are not alone. The U.S. Census bureau estimates that approximately 50 percent of all American children born in 1982 will live in a single-parent home sometime during their first 18 years, mostly because of separation or divorce. Although a parent dealing with divorce may feel that all of the pressure is focused on themselves, kids are most definitely affected both short-term and long-term from the divorce. Fortunately, parents can help their children cope during a divorce. By minimizing the tension, exercising patience, and responding openly and honestly to your kids' questions, you can minimize the damage divorce can cause.

In the Jewish Community

Although the rate of divorce is thought to be lower in the Jewish Community, no concrete evidence supports a significant difference. In any Yeshiva or Bais Yaakov school, it is likely that at least one child in every class comes from a home broken by divorce. As a result of the stigma placed on divorce in the Jewish community, kids coping with divorce may feel defenseless and alone. It is important to explain to your children that parents who divorce are not evil or sinners. Make them aware of many resources available to them, and encourage them to ask for help when necessary.

Use the following links to learn how to help your child cope with divorce. Educate yourself about normal behaviors of children affected by divorce and read about what you can do to ease the pain for yourself and your children.

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