Last updated on 09/23/08
Why do some children cheat?
With the world full of cell phones, computers, and iPods, transferring information is easier than it ever was before. Although some still use the traditional methods of cheating, many simply text answers to their friends and download complete research papers from the internet. A 2005 Duke University study found that 75 percent of high school students admit to cheating, and if you include copying another person's homework, that number climbs to 90 percent. Contrary to popular belief, the students most liable to cheat are the honor students. Under extreme amounts of pressure to get into good colleges, many cheat in order to maintain their perfect grade point averages. Although this problem seems to stem from the student, it is the parent’s responsibility to lay off of the pressure and competition; nobody is perfect.
In the Jewish Community
In a community where honesty is placed at utmost importance, it can be shocking to hear that children cheat. Although their values may prevent them from cheating to the extent of the statistics written above, cheating is still a problem that must be addressed in the Jewish Community. Many Jewish boys and girls are under constant pressure to achieve perfection. Children as young as elementary school age are pressured to do well to get into high school so they will get into seminary or yeshiva so they will be able to get married. Although that may sound ridiculous, it is true. Parents have to learn to have normal expectations for their child. Pressuring children can lead to problems far more serious than cheating.
Frequently Asked Links
What is cheating?
Why is cheating wrong?
What is plagiarism?
Who is likely to cheat?
When does cheating usually start?
At what age do children realize that cheating is wrong?
Why do students cheat? more more
Can parents inadvertently cause their children to cheat?
What is considered cheating?
How do children cheat? more
How can students use technology to cheat?
How can technology detect plagiarism?
What should I do if my child cheats?
How can I prevent future cheating?
How can schools work to eliminate cheating? more
Why do some schools refrain from punishing cheaters?
How should a parent or educator react to cheating?
By Rabbi Yakov Horowitz
How can I work with my child to prevent cheating?
Having a learning disability does not mean you cannot learn. Find out more in this article for kids.
How to Be a Good Sport
Winning is more fun but losing happens to everyone. Find out how to handle losing - and other frustrations in sports.
Mental Health Resources for the Jewish Community
Compiled by Rabbi Yakov Horowitz
National Center for Learning Disabilities
This group provides information, resources, and referral services, develops and supports innovative educational programs, seminars, and workshops, and advocates for more effective policies and legislation to help individuals with learning disabilities. Contact them at: National Center for Learning Disabilities 381 Park Ave. S. Suite 1401 New York, NY 10016 (212) 545-7510
Rabbi Horowitz does not endorse any external sites or monitor or approve content on these sites. When considering information presented here, you should consult your experts to determine what is best for you. Our sole purpose is to help you access information that Rabbi Horowitz and others have made available on the internet.