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Last updated on 11/20/08

When should I talk to my child about puberty?

Today, kids are exposed to so much information on television and the internet that by the time they approach puberty, they may be familiar with some advanced ideas. Even so, it is still important for parents to speak about puberty with their children, as not all of a child's information comes from reliable sources. Many parents wait for their children to approach them about puberty, and are surprised when they never come. Kids do not always know that it is normal to talk to parents about puberty, so parents must take the initiative.

If a parent suspects that his or her child is not developing appropriately, it is imperative to speak to the child’s pediatrician. A child’s developing stages can affect them for the rest of their lives, and problems must be dealt with as soon as possible to ensure that there is no lasting damage.

In the Jewish Community

Children in the Jewish community are generally less informed about development than other children. Some children are never informed about puberty and learn about it as it happens to themselves. This can be damaging for children, and parents should try to prevent this from happening. It is important to speak about puberty before it actually occurs so your child will be prepared for it when it happens.

Parents must also be aware that emotional changes come along with the physical changes. A child undergoing puberty may be moody, irritable, or anxious. Although this generally passes, it is important for parents to be sympathetic and understanding to their children during this time.

Use the following links to learn more about puberty. Find out how to talk to your child about puberty and what to do if you suspect that something is wrong.

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Why do boy’s voices change?

What is normal during puberty?

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American Medical Association (AMA)
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American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP)
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American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP)
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Adolescent Health Transition Project
This is a health and transition resource for adolescents with special health care needs, chronic illnesses, and physical or developmental disabilities., developed by the U.S. Office on Women's Health, offers girls between the ages of 10 and 16 information about growing up, food and fitness, and relationships.

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